Shark Week/Back to School. Same Difference.

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I always know it’s almost time to start school shopping when the promos for Shark Week on the Discovery Channel start up.

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In a way, I feel like the little sharks are circling here. They’re waiting to pounce on my wallet and tear it apart like an innocent seal, for new school supplies and clothing and loads of sharpened pencils.

I feel a little mixed about the whole thing. It’ll be great to get back into a routine, but I will miss the lazy moments and impromptu chats with my kids. The tides might be rough this year, but just like sharks, the whole family realizes that we need to keep moving through the waters of life no matter how choppy or calm they will be.

This fall we have decided to get more organized. My kids will be going into 9th and 7th grade and we are anticipating some difficult academic and social challenges. Our motto is ‘over-prepare, then go with the flow’ as I was told to do via a fortune cookie from a sushi restaurant this week. Sushi is shark food, see how this goes?

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I will be re-committing to my studies for USCI as soon as I get my little minnows off to school again. It’s been really challenging to study with the kids home considering my freelance schedule and vacations, etc. I’m not complaining! No excuses anymore, September is almost here and it’s time to sink my teeth (get it?) into my work and attack my training with a vengeance.

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Study buddies, how do you prepare for back to school? I have been organizing and setting up my workspace with care so that the order will bring me peace and focus. Please give me some more hints if you can. And happy back-to-school time. May your waters not be shark infested this school year!

Waves: Good Noise

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This week I spent some quality time on a warm, sunny beach. I watched surfers of all ages catching waves and kids jumping in and out of the sparkly surf, laughing and running around. I saw adults content to sit and relax for hours. I felt so peaceful digging my toes into the sand in front of my beach chair while chit-chatting with friends about mundane things. I felt far, far away from the hectic pace of work and the kids’ endless activities. Being a curious person, I needed to find out why this phenomena happens. Why do people who have no problem flipping me the bird if I wait too long at a stop sign suddenly seem so zen on a beach?

Research shows it’s the noise.

According to Wikipedia, “Noise health effects are the health consequences of elevated sound levels. Elevated workplace or other noise can cause hearing impairment, hypertension, ischemic heart disease, annoyance, and sleep disturbance. Changes in the immune system and birth defects have been attributred to noise exposure.

“Beyond these effects, elevated noise levels can cause stress, increase workplace accident rates, as well as stimulating aggression and other anti-social behaviors.

“There may be psychological definitions of noise as well. Firecrackers may upset domestic and wild animals or noise-traumatized individuals. The most common noise-traumatized persons are those exposed to military conflicts, but often loud groups of people can trigger complaints and other behaviors about noise. Infants are easily startled by noise.”

So what is this noise, you ask, that makes people calmer at the beach?

Answer: the waves. Literally and figuratively.

The sound of the surf creates slower brain waves. Some have said that the rhythm of ocean waves mimics that of a human’s heart at rest. One gets in sync, slows down and ahhhhhhhh. Others have likened the sound of waves hitting the surf to how a mother’s heart sounds when the baby is in the womb. It’s relaxing for many reasons.

You see, the millions of neurons in your brain use electricity to communicate with each other. They send signals all at once, which creates a large amount of electrical activity in your brain. This is called a brainwave pattern – called a “wave” pattern because of its cyclic, wave-like nature.

Most of us live the majority of our lives in a state of aroused, alert, concentrated but also somewhat stressed brainwaves.

When we lower our brainwave frequency, we can put ourselves in an ideal condition to learn new information, perform more elaborate tasks, learn languages, analyze complex situations and even be in what sports psychologists call “the zone.” “The zone” is a state of improved focus and performance in athletic competitions or exercise. The slightly decreased electrical activity in the brain can lead to significant increases in feel-good brain chemicals, such as endorphins, norepinephrine and dopamine.

As Ben Greenfield states in his fitness blog, “when you meditate, you are focusing on something, whether it’s a candle flame or your breath going in or out, or a mantra or prayer. When you focus like that, the electrical patterns in your brain slow down and relax, and the amplitude of your brain-waves generally stabilizes in the alpha wave range.”

According to Julian Treasure, there are four ways that noise or sounds in general affect us. Take a moment to listen to his explanation here.

He makes some valid points.

Dr. Tomatis, a French physician and auditory neurophysiologist, believed our ear drives and affects our entire nervous system. And depending on what we are listening to, music or otherwise, will dictate our energy level and sense of well-being. He studied monks in France and found that when the monks’ chanting was taken away, most fell ill.

In his book, The Mozart Effect, Don Campbell found listening to Mozart boosted brain capacity, focus and spatial reasoning.

Dr. Joy Madden has also reported that, “Studies have shown that noise can affect the taste of food – the flavor and the texture. For example, in one study subjects were given sweet foods (biscuits) and salty foods (crisps) while they listened to silence or noise through headphones. It was found that in noise, foods tasted less salty, less sweet and less crunchy.

“In this study, it was concluded that background noise appears to dampen your taste buds. In fact, some studies suggest that this could be why airline food tastes bland, because of the high levels of background noise in the cabin.”

So, noise can be good. Especially noise from the waves, because it can create slower brain waves, if you get what I’m saying.

And I would even suggest downloading a wave soundtrack to listen to while studying. It might just help you achieve laser focus! Try this one out!

 

Why Summer Camp is NOT Just for Kids

Alas, summer is on its last gasp and kids everywhere are heading to summer camp to take advantage of the last few weeks. Children glean many advantages from camp. Whether it’s just during the day or sleep-over camp, sports camp or nature camp, kids will almost always come home with their minds expanded in some way. In the same vein, parents can reap the benefits of camp as well. To further explain, I created this top ten list.

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Why Summer Camp is NOT Just for Kids

10. Camp Encourages Physical Activity – Kids have the opportunity to hike, swim, run and play at camp. Adults generally jump for joy vigorously when their children spill out of the car for the day at summer camp knowing that, for today, there will be no anxiety-ridden trips to the mall or tiresome negotiating of sibling rivalries.

9. Camp Helps Build Self-Confidence and Self-Esteem – Children won’t have the same academic, athletic and social competition as they do in school. Parents will have time to go to the gym, yoga class, massage therapist or dermatologist which will in turn increase their sense of peace and self-esteem immensely.

8. Camp Allows One to Try New Things and Conquer Fears – Kids might try a 100 ft high zip line or do something new that they won’t have the chance to try in school. This creates confidence and trust in themselves. Adults might start that furniture building or curtain sewing project they didn’t think they had time to tackle. Or train the puppy or put on a green, minty face mask and let it really cleanse their pores (for like an hour) before they wash it off.

7. Camp = Unplug from Electronics – When kids take a break from TV, cell phones and the internet, they rediscover their creative powers and engage in the real world. When adults have a break from watching kids become totally engrossed in their cell phones, laptops, iPads, Xboxs and PS3s, they will not have to speak as loudly to be heard. They will also be able to refrain from saying things like, “Get. Off. Instagram. And. Go. Outside. NOW” or “I know…how about reading a book?!”

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6. Camp Offers a Variety of Activities to Discover What One Likes – Kids learn new arts and crafts, things like archery and sometimes even how to find crayfish under rocks in a stream. With all of their extra time, adults can learn new ways to drive to important places, find deals and steals at local retail establishments, maybe even try daring new recipes, or start a trashy novel they have been dying to read.

5. Camp Helps One Grow More Independent – For kids, camp is the perfect place to start making their own decisions without constant parental or teacher guidance. For parents, camp provides the perfect opportunity to make personal choices without a teenager’s critical glare. One might feel like ‘shoulder dancing’ to really loud music in the car or ‘twerking’ in the kitchen while making dinner. And that is perfectly ok.

4. Camp Allows Free Time for Unstructured Play – Camp is carefree, unstructured time where kids can relax and be silly all day long. Adults might want to have an impromptu picnic or start up a beach volleyball game while the kids are at camp, just because it’s an option.

3. Camp Helps One Learn Social Skills – When kids go to camp, they join a team and learn how everyone shares, cooperates and respects each other. Adults might want to reconnect with old friends to share a two hour lunch. They might strike up new friendships with fellow parents or join that women’s golf league they have always dreamed of being a part of.

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2. Camp Helps One Connect with Nature – Outdoor experiences enrich a kid’s perception of the world that supports healthy child development. Watching their children’s refreshing amazement with nature will be fulfilling for parents who may have forgotten about how wonderful it is to catch fireflies in a jar at night.

1. Camp Helps One Make True Friends – All the fun at camp draws all of the kids closer. It creates tight bonds. Parents will smile knowing that their children are making friends. And by the way, while their children play with their new friends, sometimes there will be extra adult time to study.

Just wondering, study buddies, if you have children, do you send them to summer camp? Have you ever been to summer camp, yourself? If so, do tell…